I'm at a loss...
Why can't he just be a friend? Why is it that you can't date other men?
You say he won't and hasn't slept with "men" but I assume you know that he has slept with women and perhaps yourself, if that's not a rude question to ask..
I feel that he is in a cross road.. He doesn't want to be gay, and so refuses to accept it, but will state it as he knows he is, but in his confusion , is mixing up the friendship that he has built with you, with love but won't love you or give that to you because that would mean his was bi, not gay.
So, he is totally confused himself I think... as to who he actually is.
He really does need councelling especially if he is thinking suicidal thoughts.
It's not your responsibility, even though you feel it is , emotional blackmail from his end is making you feel this way and it's wrong.
Can you speak with his family? Let them know the situation?
CW
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Women are Angels
And when someone breaks our wings....
We simply continue to fly.........on a broomstick...
We are flexible like that ....
White Witch.
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