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**Steph33** · 02-27-2009, 01:05 AM

I did FFM with a past ex, it didn't do it for me at all and his near obsession with wanting it all the time was part of why the relationship failed.

My current BF has no interest when it came up in casual conversation. He's of the "all equal" mindset so if a guy wants 2 girls, he should be able to handle 2 guys with the girl. Either way I know he'd break down mentally and emotionally just at the serious suggestion of a 3 way. He doesn't want anyone else and it would totally kill him to see me with anyone but him or want anyone but him.

For me he's enough alone to handle all the time and gets the orgasm "mission completed" like a patriot. He also gives me what I need more than just the sex; all the emotion, cuddle, talk, parts I need as much or more than getting off. Can't get that from a 1 timer (at least I can't).

It's fine for some but can really do damage in a lot of relationships in return for a quick session.

02-27-2009, 01:05 AM	#26
Steph33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 289	I did FFM with a past ex, it didn't do it for me at all and his near obsession with wanting it all the time was part of why the relationship failed. My current BF has no interest when it came up in casual conversation. He's of the "all equal" mindset so if a guy wants 2 girls, he should be able to handle 2 guys with the girl. Either way I know he'd break down mentally and emotionally just at the serious suggestion of a 3 way. He doesn't want anyone else and it would totally kill him to see me with anyone but him or want anyone but him. For me he's enough alone to handle all the time and gets the orgasm "mission completed" like a patriot. He also gives me what I need more than just the sex; all the emotion, cuddle, talk, parts I need as much or more than getting off. Can't get that from a 1 timer (at least I can't). It's fine for some but can really do damage in a lot of relationships in return for a quick session.