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Originally Posted by torn2pieces
If he wants to see another girls breast and butt in his face then he has a desire for another woman than his own, correct? We all have desires of things we are not suppose to have or not suppose to do. We are wrong when we give in to these desires, right?
My significant other told me he goes to strip clubs to see and a _ _. I don't want to be a nag and don't want to make this an argument with him, but HELLO, that don't make your girl feel good. I am a little upset that he desires it, but could let it go, I can't let it go that he actually goes for it with no regard to my feelings.
Is it really suppose to be okay to let your significant other get rubbed up on by the opposite sex (especially a naked or half-naked one)?
Any men on here, please tell me how would you feel if your girl wanted a penis in her face?
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In response to your second question,I would be extreemly upset if my loved one went to a strip club.
And as for your original query,have you tried to talk to your (significant other),never be affraid to voice your concerns just be careful how you tackle the problem,you see when you put a question to anyone your envoiroment and tone of voice at the time is of great importance as to how your thoughts are recieved,
Show him how his actions upset you,tell him that you have love for him and that it feels like his viewing other nacked women is making you sad,because it feels like he's cheating on you.But remember he may have been going to places like these for a long time so it may be hard for him to give up,as veiwing the beautiful womans form can be adictive,yes sex is like a drug and it can be hard to give up.
Ask him if there is anything you have in your life that may hurt him,because you really want this to work.
Just be careful because if you have only been togeher for a short time it may prove difficult to make your point without appearing overly controling, he may also be vulnerable to peer preasure,although if he loves you he will try his best to stop,
I hope I have been some help to you,God bless,love Craig