Show support and ask your spouse if he'd like you to go to therapy with him to talk through things in a group therapy session maybe once or as much as needed. Theres not much you can do. I know its like being a mother and watching your kid fall off a bike when their learning but they have to learn. Hes gotta take time to retrace his steps and then go down a different path that will lead him closer to you. So be patient and supportive. Also be careful. This may be so hard for him that the relationship is hanging on by a thread and that thread might snap. Just don't be blind to that fact. Good luck!
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