he hasn't hit me, but I was scared that he would start hitting me. He did force me to have sex with him a few weeks afer giving birth - even thoguh I had so many stitches and was in so much pain
but when I said to him 'I think it will hurt' he would keep moaning about how
HE was in pain from not having sex.
I felt like a dirty old sex toy. I think having a baby gave me the strength I needed to break up with him.
I do think that if I didn't break up with him, he would start to hit me.
He is just like his dad - his parents had their first baby when they were 18, olny a year older than me. They were the irst to try to push us into a relationship and his mum kept making me feel I was her only chance to have grandchildren - no doubt she was encouraging her son.
His dad is also passive aggressive with his behaviour, and he started hitting his children and wife when his children were as young as 6 (probably younger, but my ex doesn't remember that far)
When his mum threatened to leave his dad, he threatened to burn her house down with ehr and the children in it.
So I do think my ex has it in him - my dad had to ome with me the last time I saw him because he was worried about me.
I have to see him every weekend which I never look forward to... I just want to move on with my life and forget about him
He never hit me, but he started hitting walls and shouting at my daughter - so again, I DEFFINATELY think he has it in him. It just needed time - maybe he was waiting for me to marry him? (he was obssessed with marriage since about 2 months after we started going out with each other)
Oh, and he's also started saying I'll never find anoyone because I'm not a ice person - making out that I was lucky to have him. My mum said he seems to think 'if I can't have her - no one can'