Just wanted to throw this out there. We started a fitness group, which is located under the community tab. It's a group focused on losing weight the healthy way. We can offer encouraging words and really help you through tough times.
About hubby, I have the same kind of sweet guy. He'll never tell me that I'm fat. Your best bet is to decide to lose weight on your own. It's hard, but that's what we're here for. Get on board