[QUOTE=sourpuss;79719]So I read last night something interesting. Studies have found that if a woman makes eye contact a number of times and smiles, in a really high percentage of cases, the man will eventually approach. It's not even the attractiveness of the woman that matters. It's the amount of eye contact.
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Interesting that you mention that, I wonder if that works on us females too. As I recall when I met my boyfriend, I immediatly thought he was hot and though I never flirted and neither did he, we would just have normal conversations, at first I didn't think he was interested in me because he didnt ask me out or act overtly flirty and I am way too shy to be flirty around a guy I am attracted to.
The only thing that made me feel he was attracted to me was the way he looked into my eyes when he spoke, it would make my heart beat so fast It gave me confidence and comfort in talking to him more until he did end up asking me out.
So I would definitely try that out, I think it lets people know that you are tuned into what they are saying, and that tears down some walls right away, it did for me.
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