listen to me now girls let me tell you how it really is with what we call bum loving i used to enjoy it very much i didnt care what other people said and now i am paying the price i am 30 years old and have to wear a special sort of dyper because i have no control over my bowles i could have an opp done to repair the damage that was done but could lose the use of my legs due to it so im just saying think before you act each to there own if you do just be very careful