sometimes i get like this too. no libido cause of the round of anxiety medications ive tried. and sometimes not. I always get off.. but getting me horny is something else.
I guess I have to prepare. I dress in something pretty. I do my hair and makeup. and I dance for my man. Like give him a show.. Its fun and the endorphins kick in and things are great to start. He's ready to jump on me but I'm like "wait I still want to keep dancing" I dunno there is something about knowing i do a good job at that that keeps me there. Then sex starts and its like ok. wait for the orgasm.
OH i know.. take a warm bath it helps with circulation. and play with yourself before you want to do anything with your lover/husband. I think the best thing is to keep that feeling constant so your brain starts to have it become a pattern.
Try looking at porn?
But I need new ways of "getting horny" as well. I need tips from others too. I'm exercising now so thats always a plus.
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attitude..it follows us around. It can be like a smelly sock or a sweet perfume. Others can tell. Be confident. 
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