I don't know if you would consider it, but maybe you could work at a daycare that your daughter would go to? Some daycares will let you take her there for free AND pay you. Even if it is part-time. That gives you the advantage of seeing how she is treated and keep her away from the other sick kids. It will also get you out there to meet other moms of every walk of life. You might meet a great friend that you could vent with every now and then. You might meet someone that has it worse or has it the same as you and can teach you a few tricks to help with the boredom and frustrations.