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Old 04-30-2009, 05:06 PM   #4
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Your boyfriend is probably trying to "loosen you up" so that you can enjoy what they do, but is that not trying to "change you?"...

You don't have to like Drama and Singing, it's obviously not your make up...

I think you are correct, he should accept you for who you are.. It's very different to smile at you and say come on babe, give it a go, another thing to "get mad" at you for it.

That's his frustration of what "he" wants......

As Corey said, if "you want to" become more outgoing, then that's up to you.

And I agree with Hopeless Dork, it's great to laugh at yourself and lighten yourself up a little, but that doesn't mean you have to be on "stage", rather know that silly things we do sometimes, are well funny.....

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