This kinda reminds me of when my father in law visited new york. He would constantly ask my husband to do this and that with him including drinking alcohol everyday. My husband excuse was that his father was on vacation and will be going back soon, i understood that but at the same time i felt as though his father didn't realize he had a wife to spend time with also. So i know how you feel tink, i know your situation seems worst since your father in law isnt there on vacation. I dont understand why your husband would say that his father wont be around forever, how does he know you would not be around forever too? As kaylar said find something else to do, wether its a part time job or whatever, maybe when he and his dad are not together and you are in work he will realize what hes missing out from you. I hope things will work out for you and him.