I instigated trying this with my boyfriend and he seemed happy to give it a go. I use think I would never let a guy even attempt it, much less that I would innitiate it. The thought of it seemed way too painful. But after years of hearing about it, curiousity took over. It hurt but not nearly as bad as I thought it would and suprisingly enough felt really good, physically and on a mental level it just turned me on so much to be offering him something out of the ordinary.
We've done it a handful of times since then, if the mood is right I am more than willing and excited to keep giving it a go.
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Defintion of Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
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