ok here goes...
my husband of 10 years and I just filed for a simple out of court divorce and in 30 days will be final. he is egyptian and in islam, a husband has to remain with the wife and kids until she is financially able to help herself...well, he owns a and is never home and sleeps out at least once a week. now, his brother rooms in our attic loft as he owns the with him. recently after an abusive argument, his brother came downstairs after my soon to be ex left and comforted me as I cried. That night, we began to make love and now it has become a regular thing. now if my ex found out, he would literally KILL his brother I am afraid and now I think I am pregnant. we didnt have a condom and since it was in the heat of the moment we chose withdrawal in which he went and 'put it back in' afterwards!! according to the calendar, that was my fertile time and now i am scared. I don't want to have an abortion because i have had 3 by my ex hubbo already. (yea, for hi greedy ove of money he would threaten to leave me.) we do have a 4 yr old already and i don't know how i can handle have a child who will be my daughters sibling AND cousin!! i am so stumped and his brother actually is excited!! i was thinking of keeping the baby (if i am pregnant) and telling my ex it's another man's, and keeping this thing a secret.

what to do!?