need only honest advise
hi all i have been on here a few times trying to figure things out as my relationship gets worse each day.your help has been great but just a couple of questions.the short version my sex life is horrible,my wife hardly speaks to me except when she wants to give me !!!!! about something,she has no patiance for the kids,hardly does house work anymore (used to keep a good house)then when i go to do it she gets mad at me.then the other day i notice she seems to be developing facial hair.now here is the really weird part saturday night i get home from work around 2 am and find a note on the table please wake me up.oh oh was my only thought.so i woke her up she gave me a hug got up went to the bathroom came back and raped me silly.(which was great)until sunday morning i got up went to the kitchen and just asked if she made coffee yet and she litterly blew a cork.so with all this i am assume that menopause is setting in.she is 42 and has had a partial hysterectomy about 7 years ago.i have been hoping she would sense something wrong and go to the doctor herself (i know typical male idea)but after 7 months of this i cant take it anymore,so finally my question is any suggestion on a good way to talk her into going to get checked out.i dont think the conversation will go well so any help on what not to say would be greatly appriciated.
thanks in advance will update again
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