I'm a 40 yr old divorce woman. I've been heavy for the last 14 years...I'm 5'4 and now weigh 232lbs. I've tried everything from diet pills, Dr. Berstein diet, weight watchers etc.. but found my most effective way i've lost weight was doing it with a friend. it was then that i went from 230 to 200... but alas she moved away overseas. So having someone to talk with, share experiences, advice, hints and friendship with, is what i am looking for. Doing it alone (since i live alone or soon will be lol.. chandler knows this story lol

) but i'm focusing more on me now.. so if anyone would like a "buddy" to help with theirs and mine progress it would be great...hope to talk to you soon.