If your fiancee is doing this you should give very serious consideration to walking. Marrying someone who is not fully committed emotionally is fraught with problems. My first husband was "in love" with another woman but swore he loved me and would kill himself if I left. I stayed and paid. It was miserable and still ended in divorce. It would have been better for me to have ended it much sooner. Marriage is a big challenge adding in one partner who isn't all the way there makes it really tough.
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