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Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
Steph,
Disrespect for someone's feelings if in a relationship is being a "pigheaded" person.
People have "addictions", some men go to clubs for the addiction..that doesn't make them a pig but a man with a problem.
And, you should feel sorry for your girlfriends that they are in that type of relationship whereby their man is not thinking of how they feel in the situation, if it's an "addiction"..and if they are not being treated right at home...
There's nothing wrong with going to a strip club. There may be something wrong with it being a weekly thing, daily thing and in a relationship...
CW
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Point being made was they finally saw the double standards and dumped the losers. Sorry, "nothing wrong with strip clubs unless or if" is to much make up your mind to me. It's a yes or no question. But live as you wish. If you think a guy who see strippers every weekend quits so he can date, you're not in touch with reality. And solving a slobs "sexual addition" problems, that amount to cheating basically, isn't any woman's job or responsibility. Plenty of non losers with that type of "feel sorry for me problem" to pick from. No need to feed from the bottom of the barrel. It's the same with porn, I get weary of men here who say it's fine, near all women it causes obvious problems. Then whine "I have a problem." Don't date if you're to thick to see an obvious loser for what he is and walk away.
These days there is an "excuse or ill" or everything possible. It's such BS, worse still those who buy into it.