He says I'm too dependent
So my boyfriend told me that I am too dependent on him. Not for money, but other things. He didn’t say what exactly and I was too upset at the time to really think about asking. So now I am lost. I honestly don’t know what that means. Maybe I’m emotionally dependent on him? As you can tell I had no idea. I have noticed he has been going out more with out me (maybe he feels he needs some kind of freedom) and I have been good about letting him do his own thing (so far). Like last night he asked if I wanted to go to his friends with him so I said "no thats okay, I'll put dinner in the frige for you" and didn't see him for the rest of the night, btw we live together.
So here are my questions; Can someone explain how I could be dependent on him and maybe give some examples. Also, how do you keep from being dependent on someone?
I have always been in long term relationships, never have been single for long or really dated a lot of people. Thanks for the help!
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