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Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork
A lot of guys want to be the reason their girl gets out of bed in the morning but most DON'T.
They want you to have your own life , to appreciate time with them but to not be in NEED of it (thus dependent) all the time.
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This is very accurate, Hopeless Dork! I battled with this problem a while back. This forum helped me through my thinking process. Way to go, girl power!
Sister, you have to get out and enjoy your "ME" time. You have to have your own events scheduled apart from your "together" time. Most men get more excited to see their better half after sometime being away, and have an interesting conversation about what each of you did (differently) for that day. The rule of the rubber band: the more you pull back, the greater the tension...and the faster your man will spring back to you. Have a life because you want it, not because you have to! This time, do yourself a favor, pamper yourself. The more you give yourself time, the more he'll wonder what have you been up to lately, and why you seem to be happy on your own. Then he'll do more to "get you back". Try it.