i felt as if i was carrying him. we both worked full time, yet he was free to go drinking with his friends every night, while i was supposed to do all the child care, cooking, cleaning pay bills etc, but when i left he said i wouldnt be able to survive with out him AS IF!! sorry mandeebee to get off the subject, i am sure this is not the case in your instance. i guess it just brought up a few bad memories. i was just concerned when you said you were good about letting him do his own things. it sounds like you need some things of your own. maybe you are relying on him too much for companionship etc,
|