04-24-2007, 08:06 PM
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The Other Woman
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Drama28 what you are experiencing is the 'text book' end
of a relationship.
An older married guy gets involved with a young woman.
He has ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION OF LEAVING HIS WIFE
EVER.
But he won't say anything like that.
He'll talk about how his marriage has been on the rocks
for years, how he stopped loving his wife long ago, how
they only stayed together for the children, the house,
the dog, because she's a mental case---yada yada boom.
The Other Woman believes everything he says.
Does everything he wants her to do.
And tells her how much he loves her.
In truth, she's nothing to him except a screw.
And she will be discarded when;
a) he finds someone younger/prettier
b) his wife finds out about her
He will only 'come back' to you if;
a) the younger prettier woman dumps him (or being
intelligent, runs him like the cur he is)
b) his wife is either i) lulled into a sense of security
ii) gets involved in activities which
take her out of the house and
give him free time
iii) his new girl friend won't do
the things you do, so he'll
use you when he wants them.
I can fill this post with real stories, (among other things
I do divorces) where the 'Other Woman', finds out that;
a) his 'basket case wife' is actually a vibrant business
leader and is so busy that he feels neglected and tells
his gal of the minute lies
b) not only will he never leave his wife,but if she goes
near his wife he will put her in a hospital.
Take this as a lesson to never be the other woman.
You will only hear lies, pure lies.
Your 'lover' has lied to you from day one, never loved
you, never will love you, and will not leave his wife.
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