I have 3 children and have moved due to my husbands work 11 times. The biggest problem now a days is we worry too much on a doctor's intervention all they know how to do is prescribed drugs and antidepressants that will screw up his life and totally unbalance him. You just need to sit down and explain LOOK if we don't move we are going to live on the street, the economy is bad and we have to survive and eat. Explain to him that moving may seem harsh for his social life but get over it. Parents need to go back to parenting of the "old days" everyone turned out just fine and no traumas or phycological issues because kids new you get with the program and obey your parents and deal with what life tosses your way.
Sure they don't like it but its a necessity, you can't be your kids parent and friend you need to be their guide, there fore THE PARENT. God entrusted you to guide and form this person if you baby them you form a person that can not handle change or fix problems without hitting the bottle or drugs. The main reason why kids today are so hooked on drug abuse is because as parents we are trying too hard to be their friend hug them and understand "NOT" you are here to explain hard times and that life is not fair and the sooner they learn this lesson the better of they will be in the world.
Sorry to sound so harsh but I see too many kids play the system of misunderstood and my parents gave me a trauma when what they need is a kick in the pants and learn life is not fair its a then you die get over it and move on.
My 3 kids have all grown up with tough love just the way i was raised they have never taken drugs because of the fear of GOD I put in them they knew if they did anything I would find out and tan their hide for sure. I beleive in Corporal punishment this makes real Men and Women not pansies and detriment to society.
My kids are all in school and the oldest in college studying medicine with no help she has 2 jobs and attends full time school the second one is an art student with strong conviction and discipline and finally the youngest is a football palyer and all around sportsmen he knows how to survive hunt,fish and camp something all real men need to learn it builds charcter. Your son looks like he needs a lot of character building and lay off being in touch with his female side.
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