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Bit confused there, are you saying that they "do" have bf/gf and they go as well?
You say you've gained a little weight, maybe your feeling a tad in-secure at the moment.
You say that he introduced you to the old collegues and the new collegues, so it seems that he's including you.
Maybe, he thinks you wouldn't be interested in going to those movies? Or maybe he's having "guys" time out...
Does he treat you well in all other aspects, include you in all other ways?
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I was wrong, they do have bf/gfs/husbands/wives, but it's still not a co-worker only thing.
I am insecure, and he knows this.
I know his friends from before we met, and all friends he's made through the jobs hes had during our relationship.
It's not a guy only thing either because female co-workers go too.
He includes me, if no one else is there.
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As Dr. Mansview said, confront him about it. If he won't fess up (excluding the random, obvious excuses--"I didn't think you wanted to come along", etc) then you can start considering the more difficult possiblities: maybe he is embarrassed, maybe he's interested in a co-worker, etc. However, bringing it up will probably make him realize you haven't felt included and he should invite you more often.
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I have confronted him about it, and he says he'll try to include me.
I know he's not interested in anyone else at work. All the single ladies are too young.