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Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork
I think he was trying to make you feel good and it backfired on him. I think in telling you what he did he was probably hoping it would make you happy, like as if the strippers are no competition for you that he'd rather be in his hotel room with you than paying for dances from strangers.
As a side note: What is it with guys and strip clubs these days. A long time ago it would be a rare occurance, bachelor party thing. Now guys on a tuesday morning, its rediculous. I think since much of the stigma has been lifted off patrons of these type of establishments and dancers themselves so they are taking full advantage of that and going like crazy.
I'd be embarassed at having to pay a hot guy to talk to me. To know all the flirting being done in my direction is only being done because I am holding out a stack of ones. Guys are losing their dignity and they don't even realize it. The dancers themselves don't even respect the guys who patron. Bleah.
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HD, it backfired on me, too. We went to 2 strip joints in separate ocassions and we'll be back with some of his co-workers. I feel weird in doing that, but it doesn't do anything to me (seeing naked women). For a fact, I pity them that they have to do that for a living. And somehow it boosts my ego when men look at me (I got scared though when a man looked at me like a piece of meat). I held my BF's hand so tight... He gently squeezed me closer to him.
For some reason, going there and seeing the girls made me believe myself more. "Yeah, they might be sexier...but I have something that they don't have, which makes me more attractive and desirable." I am an exotic dish that any man can dream of...
