04-27-2007, 06:46 PM
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There is nothing you can do right now.
You just have to relax and go on with your
life as if nothing has happened.
Try to enjoy what you have, think about the
future without him.
REgardless of how this turns out, you have to
look about yourself and your child. So if you
never see him again or he moves in with you
tomorrow, you still have to look after yourself
and your child.
No one lives your life for you.
No one is responsible for your happiness or security
but yourself.
So get yourself into first gear.
He is not the only man in the world, and you don't
need a man to survive. Let it all go for now.
If he's made a fool of you, well, that's gone.
If he is going to come back to you, well that's future.
You live in the present.
Do what is right now.
Think only an hour ahead for now.
Eventually you work up to four hours, then a day,
but just...what do you have to do within the next
hour?
Sitting around crying doesn't clean the bathroom.
Feeling sorry for yourself doesn't put dinner on the
table.
Just limit your world to immediates for now.
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