Originally Posted by blondie80

Unfortunatly if he wont see a doc or get a check up or anything there isn't much you can do to beat the stubborness out of him. How is his work and things at the moment? Is anything stressing him out at all, sometimes people just get stressed from day to day life and lose their sex drive. Other people just dont have a high sex drive at all or nearly no sex drive which is really a problem.
Some men when they have felt rejected and things like that they stop and lose interest in sex all together, it all depends on your life as such at the moment, before this problem how often were you guys having sex? Obviously more than once a month but how often was it? How do you approach this with him? Sometimes women have a bad habit of blaming their partner and putting the blame on them for things just with the way they word things, that will also push him away as well, its a very delicate subject to bring up and really has to be braught up the right way as well or wont work.
Sometimes sadly when men dont have sex as often they lose their drive and forget how important it can be for them as well, the less they get it the less they want it if you can get him to initiate at least a little bit more or do things that will get him to feel like he has initiated it more it may actually fix it a litle. The more he has it the more open he will be and probably want more its just getting that part of the whole process to start!