As everyone else says...there's not much you can do to 'make' him have sex with you again. My friend also dealt with this, but came out of the situation very happy because she discovered she had to change her beliefs on the matter. Why do you feel like you have to have sex with him? Because you believe it will make you happy. You believe it will make your relationship stronger. Yet, these are only beliefs. You say you love him...enough to overcome the lack of sex? Many problems occur in a relationship because one person wants the other to change. But you can't make someone change. If you do, they'll likely resent you for it (even in this situation he could--what he dislikes sex? Would you feel comfortable knowing that he is forcing himself to have sex with you despite his ill feelings toward the act?). The best you can do is change your belief and attitude toward sex. If loving him is more important than having physical intimacy, you need to convince yourself that.
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