M&Ms - The best you can do is change your belief and attitude toward sex. If loving him is more important than having physical intimacy.
I can understand this to a degree, you can change your beliefs to a degree to suit the situation that you are in, it is what changes the foundations of a relationships but at the end of the day everyone has wants and needs, you cant change someone but you expect someone to change you?? How does this discussion work?
I think in a situation like this it should be about compramise if one person is getting everything they want out of a relationship and the other is getting nothing it really isnt much of a relationship is it. He may be having a hard time with stress and things like that and it could just be something simple, and yes then that changes the dynamics and maybe a little more patience needs to be baught in but if it is something that is really important to one and not important at all to the other there needs to be compramise to a degree otherwise one is really unhappy in the relationship and eventually build up resentment frustration and everything will fall apart.
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