Hi star bright. I think the same way that caterpillar does. Leaving is the best option for the moment. The more you stay, the more complacent he will become in the situation. I myself have dated a guy on and off for about 5 years. He has the potential for being great partner, but I’ve come to the conclusion that he is scared of commitment. He’s old enough to know what he wants in life. On one hand, he wants me, and on the other, he wants to live the way he wants to. Eventually, one gets depressed with the whole situation. and so...though it was hard, i left. The space that you give him will give him enough time to think about what he wants to do with his life. It will also help him to realize that he misses you more than the thought he would. now and again, he sends me text messages letting me know that he misses me but i have made up my mind not to go back until he knows for sure what he wants, and how to deal with his commitment issues. Good luck.
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