I do get where you are coming from M&Ms, you cant expect someone to change especially if it was like this from the start of the relationship then yes you would just assume that it was normal for them and something you could either live with or not because if its like that from the start its not going to change. If it had just deteriorated through the relationship then you do wonder if there is more room for compramise because then it is unfair, maybe i just assumed that if its only now a problem after 8 years that it had slowly been dwindling away. But you are right the poster never mentioned how much was normal at the start or weather it had always been like this
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