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Originally Posted by Hopeless Dork
Am there. Doing that.
I know that I am insecure, I know that I need my boyfriend to reassure me every once and a while and I am trying to be more confident and trusting of his feelings.
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I'm in the same boat, HD. I am confident enough about myself, but sometimes I doubt if he has the same feelings that I have for him. There are times that I get hyper-sensitive and tend to read through everything he says and does, that I hurt myself. I would be a hypocrite if I say I don't need his reassurance - I DO! Why do I feel jealous? Because once in a while, though I am confident, I'm afraid to lose what I have found and I want to guard it so no one can it take away from me . It is instinctively normal.
But since we are rational beings, we know how to deal with them and balance these emotions that, if unchecked could wreck havoc to the relationship that we cherish, right?
Today, I read an article which said that 90% of good-looking women are more insecure than the average looking ones. I find it interesting, something to start a thread with (don't you think?). LOL!
But what I am trying to say is that, it is normal to feel insecure at times, but to go on and let it take over your whole being? NOT HEALTHY. We feel it when something is brewing, when something out there is threatening...but, we have to keep our peace and be assured that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. ZEN.