First thought is that he's got the best of both worlds right now.
When he wants to be in a serious relationship with someone he really cares about -- he's got you.
When he wants time for himself, then he has that too. What guy wouldn't love that lifestyle?
You can tell how a person is going to act in the future, by how they act in the past. It'll be the same relationship, just add a baby or two!! Do you feel that you can take on his childish behavior, while raising his kids?
If this is something that you're really considering, I would definately sit him down, and talk this completely through. He would have to know that he can't run back and forth. Children need their father at all hours of the day, not just when he has time.
This is just my opinion, but I might really think twice before I jump into this situation. Please be careful!!!
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