He tends to speak before he thinks. Bad habit. You are so forgiving and I admire you for that. I might not be able to stand that.
His manners speak loudly of the way he was brought up, and/or the environment he was exposed to - could be both or either the home, neighborhood, school, anywhere including media. What he needs to learn is to be sensitive of others' feelings. Since he's blunt, you should be straightforward to him and tell him how you feel about his demeanor towards you, and females in general. Problem is, those blunt people are mostly the ones who cannot take criticisms positively, whether it be constructive or not. Proceed with caution.
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