My husband is also not a very sexual person. I am luck y to get sex once every few months. i take care of myself and that way there is less pressure on him in that way. In doing so when we do have sex its about connection. As for the part about holding hands and stuff maybe if you innitiate it and cuddle up to him without the sex in the way he will reciprocate but if not talk to him and let him know you need the touching (again without bringingup sex) and that you would like for him to cuddle with you on the couch occasionaly. These are things I have used and I am in my 16th yr of marriage. I know how hard it is to be rejected for sex, it makes you wonder about so many things. But some men just dont like intercourse. I hope this helped you some. Good luck.
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