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Originally Posted by M&Ms
Someone else wouldn't be forcing you to change yourself if you were the one who expected them to change in the first place. Unless the individual did a complete reversal in their behavior during the relationship, causing you to perceive a disappointing difference in them, how do you expect them to work around your needs? If the individual DID do a complete reversal (for example, in the situation of the starter of this thread: if the bf had been very sexually active with her in the beginning of the relationship and then all of a sudden quit), then yes, I definitely agree with you on the requirement for a compromise. When I posted my response, the thread starter hadn't indicated whether her partner had frequent sex with her near the beginning of their relationship.
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Hi, in answer to your questions, we have been together 8 years before married. My hubby likes intercourse, likes sex, just seems to be tired all the time, but its not about changing someone, there are two people in a marriage, and its about trying to reach a compromise, not trying to change either partner. We did have sex more in the earlier years, but doesnt everyone? I am not asking for the world, my needs are simple, intamacy and sex sometimes, once a week is surely not too much to ask of a husband, as a wife I do all usual things, and I also pay all the bills, run a business, and have brought up 2 children (who have now left the nest) so its just us. Making love with my hubby is very intense, and fantastic, so thats why I guess I want it more than him!