ok......i was doing some snooping and it seems that my boyfriend is chasing this girl around the internet. i haven't found any evidence of suspicious comments or anything..I don't know. I'm just so threatened by her. Let me explain....
When we started dating he was still actively talking to this girl Donna. They are both 20, adopted, into photography and photo editing, and they also have the same sense of style. They have a lot in common. Well, I guess he had wanted to date her pretty bad but she lead him along. I know they had sex once but she never commited to him. 11 months ago when we had started dating she was sending him text messages like, " i miss you! you were the best sex i've ever had!" and pictures of lovers holding each other..Things like that...I told him it made me uncomfortable and asked him to ask her to stop. He did and she kept doing it..I asked him to stop talking to her. He said he would, and he didn't. After a few months the texts stopped...I'm pretty sure he hasn't seen her since. They had maybe a brief interaction at school one day because she had his portfolio so she gave it back to him..but they haven't hung out or anything.
Anyway, I HAVE checked his phone messages which I KNOW I shouldn't do....And I haven't seen anything from/to her....but I get the feeling it is because he deletes them.
He seems to still have a fascination with her. I've seen a few comments on various networking sites from him to her like, " post more art! I miss you!"
I don't know- she is younger than me, I think she is more pretty and interesting. I'm so worried that he wants her....
My head feelings unlogical and I feel like there is really nothing more I can say to explain this. Am I just worrying too much? Or is he wishing for something with this girl?
We ARE moving in together in a month, we spend quite a bit of time together, he says he loves me a lot...Oh I don't know...
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