question: first of all, forgive me if this sounds too graphic, but i gotta know. my boyfriend and i have been together for a few years now and we have sex frequently enough. throughout most of our relationship (monogamous, too) we either used condoms or the "pull out" method during sex, while i was on the pill too. lately i decided i wanted to try having sex without him pulling out (yes im still on the pill), but have gotten a little nervous about the possibility of getting pregnant. i have tried to talk to him about going back to our old ways of pulling out, but now he doesnt want to. he says he likes "keeping it in". i told him that im not quite comfortable with that, but he says that now he is used to not having to pull out, he doesnt want to have to revert back to our old ways. I dont know what else to say to him that will hopefully change his mind. any suggestions?? he can be so stubborn sometimes. he says that as long as i take the pill everyday, i should be fine and have nothing to worry about.
