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**Iseulda** · 06-30-2009, 06:06 AM

Actually the pill is an extremely effective method of contraception and, if you are taking it correctly, the chances of you getting pregnant when he ejaculates inside you with no other form of protection are minimal, about as near to zero as you get with any form of contraception.

Yes, people, like the above poster, can tell you anecdotes about women getting pregnant while on the pill - but the medical evidence strongly suggests that in those cases the woman either failed to take her pill correctly or was prescribed an ineffective hormone dosage for her own particular needs.

You have no reason to be uncomfortable - but that doesn't mean you are wrong and he is right. If you are uncomfortable then obviously he needs to take that into consideration and change his behaviour while you work on being comfortable with him ejaculating inside you. He needs to understand that your feelings are important and you just handling it and him getting what he wants is not an option. You need to compromise.

Here's a suggestion - the pill allows most women to have a pseudo-period every 28 days. How about you tell your bf he can ejaculate inside you for the week from the date that period starts but at all other times of month you require him to pull out. You may find you start to feel more comfortable with him ejaculating inside you and then maybe you can extend that time frame from the week after to the week before you're due as well.

Whether you try that or something else the key here is compromise. You need to show him you are making an effort to meet his needs and he needs to show you he is making an effort to meet yours.

And just to restate - the chances of you getting pregnant relying on the pill alone are very, very small if you take all your pills as prescribed and directed.

06-30-2009, 06:06 AM	#4
Iseulda Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: France Posts: 196	Actually the pill is an extremely effective method of contraception and, if you are taking it correctly, the chances of you getting pregnant when he ejaculates inside you with no other form of protection are minimal, about as near to zero as you get with any form of contraception. Yes, people, like the above poster, can tell you anecdotes about women getting pregnant while on the pill - but the medical evidence strongly suggests that in those cases the woman either failed to take her pill correctly or was prescribed an ineffective hormone dosage for her own particular needs. You have no reason to be uncomfortable - but that doesn't mean you are wrong and he is right. If you are uncomfortable then obviously he needs to take that into consideration and change his behaviour while you work on being comfortable with him ejaculating inside you. He needs to understand that your feelings are important and you just handling it and him getting what he wants is not an option. You need to compromise. Here's a suggestion - the pill allows most women to have a pseudo-period every 28 days. How about you tell your bf he can ejaculate inside you for the week from the date that period starts but at all other times of month you require him to pull out. You may find you start to feel more comfortable with him ejaculating inside you and then maybe you can extend that time frame from the week after to the week before you're due as well. Whether you try that or something else the key here is compromise. You need to show him you are making an effort to meet his needs and he needs to show you he is making an effort to meet yours. And just to restate - the chances of you getting pregnant relying on the pill alone are very, very small if you take all your pills as prescribed and directed. __________________ Now let us sport us while we may; / And now, like am'rous birds of prey, Rather at once our time devour, / Than languish in his slow-chapp'd power. Let us roll all our strength, and all / Our sweetness, up into one ball; And tear our pleasures with rough strife / Thorough the iron gates of life. Thus, though we cannot make our sun / Stand still, yet we will make him run.