We've been using the 'pull out' method for about a year without getting pregnant. It is risky and men always complain about it. Now I'm on the pill for the 3rd time (have stopped it a couple of times in the past) and we don't have any problems. All in all I've used the pill for 3 years in my life without any unexpected pregnancies. I know a couple that conceived while on the pill, but she wasn't taking the pill every day at the same time. It's all about taking it at the exact same time and not taking antibiotics or other medicine. Just set a daily alarm on your phone and you won't have to worry about it. The only thing is that if you choose to continue without the 'pull out' method then he also has to respect your part of it and let you enjoy sex as much as he does (i.e. he shouldn't just worry about him having an orgasm now that he doesn't have to pull out; he should also think about you).
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