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Old 06-30-2009, 07:25 PM   #18
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As some have pointed out it is your body and as some others have pointed out, you have been with him for a few years so he should have some say... I agree with both of these statements however... He should try to think about the situation as a whole and not just his gratification because that is the ONLY thing he is thinking about.

This may scare him and if so, good but just nonchalantly ask him if he is ready to have a child. Maybe throw in some little facts about babies like how they cry A LOT, go in their pants, and the fact that the next 18 years of your life are going to be about the baby and not yourselves. Granted, with the pill the chance is low but it does happen. Maybe that will wake him up some.
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