Sorry I didn't read all the replies, I stopped when I got to the replies that say that HE should have some say..... Are you Freakin' serious? HE should have some say? Heck NO he doesn't have a say!!! Is HE gonna help carry that baby? Is he gonna have to deal with it for 9 months, not to mention 18+yrs? No, that's BS.... If your not comfortable with it, then he either pulls (which is dumb) or he puts a rain coat on that baby. Get married, then MAYBE he at least gets to have some input.
I'm surprised how many woman on this board are mis-informed. BC pills have been the most successful form of BC, primarily due to the fact that the woman is responsible for taking them, but their effectiveness will vary from person to person. The CAN be 99% effective, but not in every woman. My son was conceived while my wife was CORRECTLY taking BC. A gentleman who works for me has two children conceived the same way. I'm certain his wife was taking them as prescribed when considering that she DID NOT want children at all...FYI, he just got snipped!!!
Not to mention, no drug is without it's side affects, BC included. My wife is still dealing with those side affects....
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