It was seriously weird him going onto that site though, several times for the first time since early year. He doesn't even use it, never has. I haven't said anything to him all this time, and yes it's been just over three months since he emailed me, but I just left him on the lists he didn't remove me from and that's that.
I guess you're right, and I agree he would probably just say something [despite the fact once something is in his head it's immovable], but this just really sucks.

Didn't think he was capable of being so cold. Really miss him, but I guess that's one-way now.