mmm...
Go back and talk to your Doctor pertaining to fertility, your body, cycles, when the least time you can get pregnant, when the best time you can get pregnant, the strength of the particular pill you are taking and it's efficiency.
As you can tell, there's mixed thoughts feelings here based on their personal experiences and based on their knowledge of the pill as a woman...
I always think that any "fear factor" is based on not enough knowledge and it's evident that you are in fear of getting pregnant and that you don't have enough knowledge. I think if you were to establish all of this your fear would subside more.
I also think, that a valid point is being missed.
You obviously allowed him to ejaculate inside of you whilst on birth control and now your in fear and you've taken that away, off course he's going to get upset but you are both probably very young as well, and his communication over the situation is wrong.
He's not really "getting" your fear of it all.
He's thinking of the feeling he got and gets without pulling out.
And, as he's already experienced it with you it's hard for him to go backwards.
I think you need to seek out those fears from your Doctor as an individual and understand how it all works properly and I think you need to express to him that at the moment, it's a fear and you need to work through that so you need his understanding for the time being.
CW
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