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Britth89 · 07-01-2009, 11:16 PM

I was talking to my friend yesterday about how we r both virgins and how most guys over the age 18 do not want to have sex with a virgin. My friend being 21 and me being 20, and both single at the moment, we have heard many horror stories of girls bleeding or crying or whatever and the thought of losing it to a guy that doesn't want to deal with that would just devistate us. So she just blurted out that sometimes she just wants to get it over with by using a toy and seeing how that works out because then trchnically she wouldn't be concidered a virgin and she would have an idea of what it feels like and it wouldn't be so embarressing.

So I don't know what to say to something like that. Have you heard of anyone doing this? What do you think of such an idea?
And what can I tell my friend to make her feel better about the virgin thing?

07-01-2009, 11:16 PM	#1
Britth89 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1	Losing it to a toy??? Your opinions please. I was talking to my friend yesterday about how we r both virgins and how most guys over the age 18 do not want to have sex with a virgin. My friend being 21 and me being 20, and both single at the moment, we have heard many horror stories of girls bleeding or crying or whatever and the thought of losing it to a guy that doesn't want to deal with that would just devistate us. So she just blurted out that sometimes she just wants to get it over with by using a toy and seeing how that works out because then trchnically she wouldn't be concidered a virgin and she would have an idea of what it feels like and it wouldn't be so embarressing. So I don't know what to say to something like that. Have you heard of anyone doing this? What do you think of such an idea? And what can I tell my friend to make her feel better about the virgin thing?