Breaking her hyman is what she will technically be doing, not "losing her virginity" but I don't see why that would be a bad idea if she is curious, why not? When she does fall in love she will still be able to say the man is the first man she is having sex with. A hymen can be broken accidentally anyway, not always because of penis penetration.
If she wants to do it, its safe (she can't get pregnant or disease) she can stop whenever she wants to, etc. Its a much better route than going and just grabbing any bobby joe at the bar to take home and 'get it over with' etc.
I am sure a man would enjoy just as much being the first man she ever has inside as he would being the one that tears that little peice of flesh etc.
Virginity (for adult women, of course) is so overrated and a fairly sexist concept.. that some how for some reason women should be "pure" until love while men don't have to be makes my skin crawl. Women are more than just their hymen, their worth is in their heart not in having that 'new car' appeal.
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