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trendywendy · 07-02-2009, 07:39 AM

Hi Elise

Thanks for that reply, very helpful.

I have two grown up children, who have left the nest. My hubby is my second hubby, my first died when the kids were 4 and 6, (he was their father) so I know what good and loving sex is. My first hubby was very sexually active, but back then when the kids were younger, I didnt feel the need so much. But now, im in my fourtys, and god, do I need it. I have not got a lover, but have thought about this having a booty friend. Have even asked my hubby about it, but he said he wouldnt like it, but never got any further than that. He is hard work sometimes!
After putting this message on, things came to ahead, 2 weeks ago, I started sleeping in the other bedroom, first night he never noticed, second night he came in annoyed. I said there was no point in me being in the same bed, and he stormed off. Next night, we sat and talked, and he realised I was upset and serious. The last two weeks have improved, I doubt it will last, but for the moment he is making an effort, and I LOVE it!

07-02-2009, 07:39 AM	#32
trendywendy Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11	Hi Elise Thanks for that reply, very helpful. I have two grown up children, who have left the nest. My hubby is my second hubby, my first died when the kids were 4 and 6, (he was their father) so I know what good and loving sex is. My first hubby was very sexually active, but back then when the kids were younger, I didnt feel the need so much. But now, im in my fourtys, and god, do I need it. I have not got a lover, but have thought about this having a booty friend. Have even asked my hubby about it, but he said he wouldnt like it, but never got any further than that. He is hard work sometimes! After putting this message on, things came to ahead, 2 weeks ago, I started sleeping in the other bedroom, first night he never noticed, second night he came in annoyed. I said there was no point in me being in the same bed, and he stormed off. Next night, we sat and talked, and he realised I was upset and serious. The last two weeks have improved, I doubt it will last, but for the moment he is making an effort, and I LOVE it!