haroldthesub

I first experienced prostate massage when a more experienced lover suddenly penetrated me with her finger just before bringing me to orgasm with her hand.

It was extremely intense; really, the penetration made me come. The position was very important as I was on my back with my legs spread, completely open and not tense at all. The result was that my girlfriend's finger went in very deep (she was very well lubricated) and since it was a complete surprise - I did not know that women did this! - I did not tense at all. My eyes were closed so it was an utter shock.

I don't really recommend this for beginners. I was a virgin at the time but my girlfriend was experienced and had perfected her technique with her ex-husband. She is also a medical professional.

This all started almost 5 years ago, and we have discussed this event endlessly, i.e. why she did it, why she thought I would respond to it, etc. She moved on from it the very next day, using a small dildo to penetrate me and we have been very adventurous since then...and yes she regularly pegs me to this day...last night for example.

And yes, I much prefer being pegged to being fingered and I deeply appreciate the life that my girlfriend has given me, educating me and turning me into a kind of submissive man that I would not be if I had not met her. In retrospect, she took advantage of our age difference and my lack of experience and confidence to make me into something of her liking.

Suprisingly enough, I simply love being the feminine, submissive partner...not all men would, of course, and I can't imagine how you would find out if your lover would want this.

By the way, I am not gay or bisexual at all, but if my girlfriend asked me to experiment, I would, as an act of submission only.