This is a toughie. It would be hard to deal with if you were right by her side, trying to deal with it long distance must be maddening. She is on a course to self destruction and realistically only she can change that. It's good the child isn't in her care. She needs professional help, to be removed the sphere of "freinds" who support this behavior and to truly want to stop. Unfortunately you can only work through intermediaries.
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