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Originally Posted by nubianqueen
throughout most of our relationship (monogamous, too) we either used condoms or the "pull out" method during sex, while i was on the pill too. lately i decided i wanted to try having sex without him pulling out (yes im still on the pill), but have gotten a little nervous about the possibility of getting pregnant. i have tried to talk to him about going back to our old ways of pulling out, but now he doesnt want to. he says he likes "keeping it in".
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The pill is NOT 100% and it states that in the information pamphlet that comes with it.
What it boils down to is that it is your body and if you are uncomfortable about a certain situation you have that right 110% If him staying inside is uncomfortable for you than you need to express it and stick with it. Tell him you will either pull out or wear a condom!
It is your body, and he should be thankful you are allowing it to pleasure him so you should have the final say! I am sure he wouldn't let something continue that he wasn't comfortable with.
Another thing I wanted to share with you if you decide to let him continue and afraid of the risk of becoming pregnant is the negative effect of vaginal lubricants reducing the sperm’s ability to penetrate the cervix. For it to be possible for pregnancy to occur, sperm must penetrate cervical mucus and then proceed to the fallopian tubes in great numbers.
In effort to prevent pregnancy insist he wear a condom, or pull out. Keep taking your pill everyday the same time. As well as use a lubrication to help stop the sperm from traveling inside of the cervix.
